For my Beloved on Valentine's Day -- Our Song...

I miss you s-o-o-o-o much, Brother...

Antoinette Tuff -- incredible my Sister, just incredible

"People who treat other people as less than human, must not be surprised when the bread they have cast on the waters comes floating back to them, poisoned."

James Baldwin

On the other hand Jimmy, "People who treat people as equally human, must not be surprised when the bread they have cast on the waters comes floating back to them, appreciated!" -- and McNair Elementary School bookkeeper, Antoinette Tuff deserves every bit of appreciation that comes her way after this harrowing experience:



Tears were streaming down my face as I listened to this woman.  I cried because of her courage.  I cried because of her empathy.  I cried because of her humanity.  I cried because that boy probably never had anyone in his life who cared enough to say, "It's okay, Baby," or "I love you."  And I cried because it was Antoinette Tuff who did. She saved those babies, every single one of them -- and without the NRA's, "Teachers should have guns in every school" foolishness.



Such grace my Sister -- under pressure and after.  Considering that, I am certain you are a much better woman than I.

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Preserving cultural identity in the face of institutionalized white supremacy: Another Home-going -- Pt. 1

There is that great proverb—that until the lions have their own historians, the history of the hunt will always glorify the hunter.

— Chinua Achebe, “The Art of Fiction,” 1994

(Photo:  Charleston City Paper)

Tucked amid those high-profile cases the Supremes chose to hear this year, is the little-talked-about (at least nationally), Adoptive Couple v. Baby Girl wherein, the preservation of cultural identity is pitted against the often tried and true -- "best interest of the child" argument.

Steeped in the easily recognizable machinations of childless white folk who've set their sights on the children of the "Other" (don't act like this is an odd occurrence, it's what prompted the Indian Child Welfare Act in the first damned place!) -- the alleged adoptive parents' display of money+things+privilege must = power seems to me, little more than institutionalized white supremacy writ large.

Now Family, before you go asking yourselves, "What the hay-ell does this have to do with us?!" I beg your indulgence all the way to the end of the post, mkay?  Before then though, let's take a look at how this case of, "No!  You cannot have this man's child!" -- was able to even land in the U.S. Supreme Court.

At issue for the Court:

1. Whether a non-custodial parent can invoke the Indian Child Welfare Act of 1978 (ICWA), 25 U.S.C. §§ 1901-63, to block an adoption voluntarily and lawfully initiated by a non-Indian parent under state law; and
2. Whether ICWA defines “parent” in 25 U.S.C. § 1903(9) to include an unwed biological father who has not complied with state law rules to attain legal status as a parent.

Just let those "implications" marinate for a minute. Having recently returned from home (yet again, Amenta!), I can tell you that there, as Elder Achebe noted above, "the history of the hunt" is definitely "glorifying the hunters" when it comes to "Baby Girl."

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How it got this far

Perusing a hometown paper online the first week of 2013, I came across this: U.S. Supreme Court agrees to hear 'Baby Veronica' case.  And yes, like the series of yet-to-be-published pieces about home with which I've been struggling across my recent visits, this also sat as a draft -- until I realized that the April 15 hearing date was upon us.

Several things struck me as I read the short piece (especially the first, double comment!).  I had to go and read the linked, mainstream media version of the original "specifics" of the case, as reported by The Charleston City Paper here.  Please, do read the entire thing -- I doubt you'll be able to ignore the "glorification of the hunter" throughout.  Particularly interesting to me, were these observations.

By now most people around here know something about Veronica. They see the purple Save Veronica signs and bumper stickers in business windows and parking lots. Her swath of curly dark hair has become almost iconic. But what most local residents don't understand is how this happened.

Four months after Matt and Melanie Capobianco brought Veronica home, an attorney called them to let them know that Dusten Brown had filed for paternity and custody. A few more months passed, and the Cherokee Nation joined the case, claiming a violation of the Indian Child Welfare Act. That law, passed in 1978 to keep tribes together, also deems the Capobiancos' unwavering drive to care for Veronica less significant than her biological tie to the Cherokee Nation. The Indian Child Welfare Act mandates that a child with Native American heritage grow up with blood relatives or, if that option is unavailable, with a member of his or her tribe. Social workers can place the child with adoptive or foster families from outside the tribe, but only after exhausting those possibilities. The cases that arise from this law prove as divisive as abortion or gay marriage. Some people take this law personally.

By, "most local residents," the writer must mean, "white folk who can't get their way," because quiet as it's kept, there are more Native Americans in the Carolinas than she'd like to admit, many of whom know full well how their culture has been turned upside-down by the presence of white folk on their lands (the main reason why "Occupy" anything causes a quiet riot deep in my gut). Equally -- because South Carolina once had a Black Majority due, in particular, to the volume of West African slaves brought into the colony because of their African and gendered knowledge of growing rice, as well as, to do the back-breaking work that made white planters rich -- there are many Blacks who not only understand why this happened, but are rooting for Dusten Brown.  So, no shit, Allyson, some people -- who are not white -- take this law personally (as a matter of fact, there's a Black father further down-post who, I'm sure, wishes there was an ICWA for him!).

Her concentration on the faux adoptive parents' "unwavering drive" versus the inane-sounding, "keep tribes together," is indicative of the "white gaze."  To frame this story as such, reeks of the white privilege permeating the whole affair.  And to equate the divisiveness of the cases arising from the ICWA with "abortion or gay marriage" is hyperbole at its best -- Baby Girl belongs with her damned Daddy who wants her!  Somebody please show my ignorant behind where the similarity is!

A court filing on behalf of the Capobiancos said Brown agreed to give up his rights to Veronica to his estranged ex-fiancée, so long as he could give up any child support obligation along with it. Brown's attorney, Shannon Jones, instead argued that her client expected Veronica's biological mother to raise their daughter and signed away his rights to her alone.

Now this is truly interesting to me.  As you will read in the opinion below, Dusten was active-duty military, preparing to deploy to Iraq, when he agreed "to give up his rights to Veronica to his estranged ex-fiancée."  Sounds really ominous right?  It is, but it's not -- here's why.  My husband and I were once, both on active-duty in the Navy (different languages, same specialty) and we both had to sign over our parental rights to (in our case) my mother, in the event that he would be assigned sea-duty and I would be assigned to an unaccompanied OUTCONUS (outside the continental U.S.) tour of duty.  This actually happened upon my re-enlistment, but I decided to get out instead because of the way my babies often reacted when Dad came back from other sea-duty tours  -- they didn't know who the hayell he was!  Their getting reacquainted was always a process, one I didn't want to have happen to me.  Now, might Dusten not have thought that was what he was signing?

Intrigued by the article though (mainly because in situations like these, there's always two sides to every story and then the damned truth), I googled some "Other" versions of the story.  This one was particularly interesting (especially the comments!):  Biological Father Regains Custody of Two-Year-Old Cherokee Daughter in Adoption Battle.

And further, because I prefer facts, versus an emotion-laden, media-biased opinion (which the City Paper's piece, along with CNN and others I've seen and read -- are), I decided to look up the actual, South Carolina Supreme Court opinion.  I wanted to know the legal reasons why the alleged adoptive parents' case was denied in the lower court in the first place -- and I'm glad I did:

CHIEF JUSTICE TOAL: This case involves a contest over the private adoption of a child born in Oklahoma to unwed parents, one of whom is a member of the Cherokee Nation. After a four day hearing in September 2011, the family court issued a final order on November 25, 2011, denying the adoption and requiring the adoptive parents to transfer the child to her biological father. The transfer of custody took place in Charleston, South Carolina, on December 31, 2011, and the child now resides with her biological father and his parents in Oklahoma. We affirm the decision of the family court denying the adoption and awarding custody to the biological father. (emphasis mine)

Now I'm no lawyer, but I see no ambiguity here.  The child was never legally adopted!  However, given what James Island has increasingly become, I'm certain that fact was merely an annoyance for the money+things+privilege must = power folk (kinda like no-see-ums instead of gnats, because you see, no-see-ums bite -- but still, they can be handled).

This child is living with her Daddy and extended family! And they're trying their damndest to get in between that with their, "Woe is me" displays? Lawd ha' mercy, doesn't the sense of entitlement just drip -- even as they spew that whole "best interest of the child" bullshit?

And to think, all of this trauma, being inflicted on the child and her Daddy, is being aided and abetted by the faux adoptive Mom -- who has a Masters degree and a PhD in developmental psychology and develops therapy programs for children with behavior problems and their families!  And people wonder why I'm wary of alphabet-holding, "mental health experts." {smdh}

Some additional points to ponder from the opinion:

• Mother testified that she knew "from the beginning" that Father was a registered member of the Cherokee Nation, and that she deemed this information "important" throughout the adoption process. Further, she testified she knew that if the Cherokee Nation were alerted to Baby Girl's status as an Indian child, "some things were going to come into effect, but [she] wasn't for [sic] sure what." 

• Mother reported Father's Indian heritage on the Nightlight Agency's adoption form and testified she made Father's Indian heritage known to Appellants and every agency involved in the adoption. However, it appears that there were some efforts to conceal his Indian status. In fact, the pre-placement form reflects Mother's reluctance to share this information:

  "Initially the birth mother did not wish to identify the father, said she wanted to keep things low-key as possible for the [Appellants], because he's registered in the Cherokee tribe. It was determined that naming him would be detrimental to the adoption.” 

• Appellants hired an attorney to represent Mother's interests during the adoption. Mother told her attorney that Father had Cherokee Indian heritage. Based on this information, Mother's attorney wrote a letter, dated August 21, 2009, to the Child Welfare Division of the Cherokee Nation to inquire about Father's status as an enrolled Cherokee Indian. The letter stated that Father was "1/8 Cherokee, supposedly enrolled," but misspelled Father's first name as "Dustin" instead of "Dusten" and misrepresented his birthdate. (my bold, their italic -- emphasis here) 
• Because of these inaccuracies, the Cherokee Nation responded with a letter stating that the tribe could not verify Father's membership in the tribal records, but that "[a]ny incorrect or omitted family documentation could invalidate this determination." Mother testified she told her attorney that the letter was incorrect and that Father was an enrolled member, but that she did not know his correct birthdate. Adoptive Mother testified that, because they hired an attorney to specifically inquire about the baby's Cherokee Indian status, "when she was born, we were under the impression that she was not Cherokee." Any information Appellants had about Father came from Mother. (emphasis mine)

Based just on the afore-going, it's obvious that -- from the Mother, to the agency handling the "adoption," to the attorney involved, to the adoptive parents -- this case is riddled with fraud and financial coercion at best, and institutionalized white supremacy at the very least (All together now, can we say, "You lie!" to the faux, adoptive parents and their lawyers?).  Also, it seems if push comes to shove, the adoptive parents are positioned to hurl the birth-mother under the damned bus, walking away, not only unscathed, but painted as "victims" of a lying, conniving birth mother.  But for the Cherokee Nations' written caveat, this Dad never stood a chance!

Here we have a single (now married, according to The Atlantic piece), Cherokee Nation father (non-custodial parent) trying to block the adopting out of his own biological child to white folk, after her non-Indian mother (with some pre- and post-financial assistance from the white folk), voluntarily, but it seems to me, unlawfully, gave her up for adoption -- without telling the father.

(Photo courtesy of The Atlantic)

Secondly, we have the faux, adoptive parents, relying on the language of the ICWA, to determine that Dusten Brown is not Veronica's parent (institutionalized white supremacy notwithstanding, he did file for paternity four months after her birth when he found out what the birth mother had done.  I don't see how they have a leg on which to stand there, especially if his deployment is raised but -- you never know about those "hunters,"right?).

From "Wounded Knee" (where Commissioner of Indian Affairs, Thomas Morgan stated in October 1889 -- a year before that massacre):

“The Indians must conform to "the white man’s ways," peaceably if they will, forcibly if they must. They must adjust themselves to their environment, and conform their mode of living substantially to our civilization. This civilization may not be the best possible, but it is the best the Indians can get. They cannot escape it, and must either conform to it or be crushed by it. The tribal relations should be broken up, socialism destroyed, and the family and the autonomy of the individual substituted.” (emphasis mine)

To the Changeling's, revisionist-history-nominated-for-an-Oscar, faux, "Great Emancipator," homeboy, Abe Lincoln, who said in his, Address on Colonization to a Deputation of Negroes:

"...If we deal with those who are not free at the beginning, and whose intellects are clouded by Slavery, we have very poor materials to start with.  If intelligent colored men, such as are before me, would move in this matter, much might be accomplished. It is exceedingly important that we have men at the beginning capable of thinking as white men, and not those who have been systematically oppressed." (emphasis mine)

White supremacy has continuously demanded that all of us, "Others," totally forget who we are, and assimilate into what they demand we become -- a carefully cultivated, "rainbow" version of THEM.  

Thanks, but no thanks -- I'll pass.

I cannot, and will not, speak to my Brown sister's motivations, nor actions (especially given the "gaze" under which she's been portrayed). But what I do know is true, is that Veronica is in her father’s household where she needs to be.  To the Capobiancos, I say -- go adopt a little white girl. There are plenty of them waiting for loving families, and, you won't have to deal with the ICWA!

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Okay Family here's where we come in (and please -- stop listening to what the MSM and the Changeling have to say about Black fathers!):

The father of a baby girl who is nearly 2 years old now, and did not even know she existed until last year is battling her adoptive parents for custody. Army Staff Sergeant Terry Achane's wife put her child up for adoption while he was away on duty and did not tell him about it until six months after he returned home. A Utah judge has ruled the adoptive parents must hand the child over to him within 60 days. But the couple, Jared and Kristi Frei, is filing an appeal, hoping to keep their daughter. (emphasis mine)

So, sister-girl decided this adoption on her own, though she didn't create this life on her own. And now, the white family wants to fight to keep "their" daughter. {smdh} Even more disturbing for us, is a trend my young sister, Ankh posted at the advent of the new year, entitled, "First One of the Year."   Raising interracial children in a home with two parents who love them, carries its own set of "preserving cultural identity" difficulties, however, I find this set of circumstances more than chilling for the "accidental children" of the trysts described therein. I, unabashedly found great pride in the "Idle No More" movement going on during the Baby Veronica case because -- in nearly every picture at the link, "Protect Our Children" is the prominent consideration, as it is with all the briefs filed by other tribes in support of the case at the initial link.  These "lions" definitely have their own historians, Elder Achebe, and because of that, I have high hopes that this child's, "history of the hunt" will glorify them all. My fervent hope, is that Black folk, with all our historians, can begin to cogently relate "the history of the hunt" in which we've long been involved, glorifying (for a change), the rights of African-descended children to know who they are, rather than who the "hunters" demand they become.

Continued: Preserving cultural identity in the face of institutionalized white supremacy: Another Home-going -- Pt. 1a -- Cultural assaults on "The Other" continues

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Ruminations: Legal games people play with others' lives

Before delving into that very eye-opening trip back home that I mentioned in the previous post, I thought I'd share some ruminations first. Your two cents are more than welcome!

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"Now, I don’t think that’s attributable to the fact that it is so much clearer now that we need this. I think it is attributable, very likely attributable, to a phenomenon that is called perpetuation of racial entitlement. It’s been written about. Whenever a society adopts racial entitlements, it is very difficult to get out of them through the normal political processes."

Antonin Scalia

Now see, if the Black Misleadership Class (BMC) had been on their job for all these years they've been supposedly -- leading, Young Ben over at the NAACP wouldn't have been sending out solicitations for cash (which is where I got that Scalia quote from), or petitions at the 13th hour trying to get folk "to stand with the NAACP to say that voting is a right, not an entitlement." I mean it's not like they didn't know this shit was coming before the Supreme Court this year.  Hell, the case is Shelby County, Alabama , Petitioner v. Eric H. Holder, Jr., Attorney General, et al!!  And the et al, wait for it -- includes the damned NAACP!  And I won't even mention the number of amicus briefs filed by CBC members, to include Rep. John Lewis. {smdh}

Do follow the chronology of Shelby Co. v. Holder here, and then tell me why the BMC sat on their damned hands all this time.  Too busy screaming about how racist the Republicans have been treating the poor Changeling I guess (as if any of that's a damned surprise).  Or in the case of Young Ben, too busy "seminar-cruising to Canada and New England" aboard The Nation Magazine's, "floating palace of populism."  His photo's not yet among the rest of the alabaster brethren/sistren -- and neither are any Colored People's (except maybe David Zirin) -- but according to an email I got today, he's already signed on):

That's how Jim Hightower -- a guest on numerous Nation cruises -- once characterized it. Now is the time to book your trip with us on our 16th annual seminar cruise to Canada and New England. And if you book before May 1st we'll give you a $100 discount!

Some of the special guests who have already signed on:

Naomi Klein, Nation Columnist and author of The Shock Doctrine
Laura Flanders, Nation Contributing Writer and host of The Laura Flanders Show
Dave Zirin, The Nation's first sports columnist
Benjamin Jealous, President of the NAACP
Dan Perkins, aka political cartoonist Tom Tomorrow
...with more to come.

Yeah, donate to the NAACP for that shit; based on the above -- "You get what you pay for." {smdh}

As for Scalia, I think Mr. James Baldwin sums up pretty well, how his Sicilian-cum-white background helped perpetuate his own position of "racial entitlement" in On Being White...And Other Lies.

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The White House Joins the Fight:

President Obama made good on the promise of his second Inaugural Address on Thursday by joining the fight to overturn California’s ban on same-sex marriage. Since he declared that marriage equality is part of the road “through Seneca Falls and Selma and Stonewall,” we can’t imagine how he could have sat this one out.

The administration’s brief to the Supreme Court was a legally and symbolically important repudiation of Proposition 8, the 2008 voter referendum that amended California’s Constitution to forbid bestowing the title of marriage on a union between two people of the same sex — a right the California Supreme Court had found to be fundamental under the State Constitution.

Like the arguments made by the lawyers for those who seek to overturn Proposition 8, and by a group of prominent Republicans earlier this week, the government’s brief says any law attempting to ban same-sex marriage must be subjected to heightened scrutiny because it singles out a class of Americans, historically subject to discrimination, for unequal treatment. (emphasis mine)

See how this works Family?  When pressed, he promises you something -- and you get it.  If he's not pressed, he doesn't promise you a damned thing (even though you are "a class of Americans, historically subject to discrimination, for unequal treatment," as in the example directly above ) and that's just what you get -- not a damned thing.

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"Transgender 6 year-old barred from girl's bathroom":

Somebody please explain this to me  (**Noticed the Post deleted its video, so I replaced it with a link to another from KOMO News).  The school said the child could use either the staff bathroom or the one in the nurse's office.  The parents say, "using anything other than the girl's bathroom would stigmatize their child."  The father said, "It just sets her up for bullying and harassment and it's not fair."  I don't get it -- what do they think having the child use the girl's bathroom will do?  Not only to their six year-old child, but to the other six year-old children?  The child is anatomically male!

UPDATE: Saw this today which is to me, similar, but different, to the story above: Transgender Student Sues California Baptist University for Reneging on Acceptance Letter after MTV Appearance -- what say you on either story?

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DHS releasing illegal immigrants before sequester:

A week before mandatory budget cuts go into effect across the government, the Department of Homeland Security has started releasing illegal immigrants being held in immigration jails across the country, Immigration and Customs Enforcement said Tuesday.

Gillian Christensen, an ICE spokeswoman, said ICE has reviewed “several hundred cases” of immigrants being held in jails around the country and released them in the last week. They have been “placed on an appropriate, more cost-effective form of supervised release,” she said.

Christensen said the agency’s “priority for detention remains on serious criminal offenders and other individuals who pose a significant threat to public safety.” She did not say how released immigrants were selected or what jails they were released from.

Tuesday’s announcement of jail releases is the first tangible impact of the looming budget cuts for DHS.

So Chocolate Jesus, with a wave of the hand, anointed "Mosette" Napolitano with the power to, "Let my people go." {smdh}  Family, please stop talking about what the Changeling, can, and cannot do!  He could do more for our Black asses if he chose to -- he just doesn't choose to.  Wake the hell up, please.

This, "all in the game" move didn't have jack to do with "looming budget cuts."  He's screwing with Republican wing-nuts who fear Latinos for a host of reasons (beginning with their numbers), while he screws over Black folk who make up a measly 13% of the population.  Rather than Caribbean Blacks being “placed on an appropriate, more cost-effective form of supervised release,” he and "Mosette" are first, criminalizing THEM,  then shipping them the hell out in droves!

Hell, given our over-representation in the Prison Industrial Complex, you'd think they'd save a ton of money by releasing low-level, "nickel-bag boys" and other Black, non-violent offenders (if this move had something to do with budget cuts, that is).  Haven't heard anything about him doing that shit have you?  Gotta keep those fat-cat,  for-profit, private prisons afloat somehow I guess.  And, not only is the government playing money "games" with them at our expense, so is this prostitute of an "educational institution" {smdh}

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Dog Sniffs Can Establish Probable Cause for a Search; Defendants Must Contest Reliability in the Trial Court:

In a disappointing decision, the United States Supreme Court today enshrined in law a dog’s wide latitude to determine Americans’ constitutional right to be free from unwarranted search and seizure. In siding with the dog in Florida v. Harris (No. 11-817), the Court misses the point. An alert by a “trained” or “certified” drug detection dog by itself should be insufficient to establish probable cause, as the National Association of Criminal Defense Lawyers (NACDL) argued in its joint amicus curiae brief to the Court in this case. (emphasis mine)

So-o-o, you thought you had the protection of the Fourth Amendment regarding "unreasonable search and seizure" right? You don't. And in this case, even though the first part of the headline is ridiculous as hayell on its face (what if some doggie treats in your car, as I routinely carry for my road-dog, Blanca on cross-country trips, gets the K-9's nose sniffing?), it is the second part that screams loudest about the punitive nature of the decision.  You gotta pay their asses either way!  Damned if you, damned if you don't. Kinda like my confusion over all the hoopla over New York's ruling that "stop-and-frisk" was unconstitutional. Yeah, the Black mis-leadership class (along with those of you who believe they're actually giving a damn about Black folk, in particular, being unconstitutionally profiled and harassed) acted like they'd done some-damned-thing. But Judge Shira Scheindlin (a relation of Judge Judy's? More than likely) put the kabosh on that shit last Tuesday:  NYPD can temporarily continue unconstitutional stop-and-frisks:

Her ruling in early January had been celebrated by civil liberties groups like the NYCLU, who brought the suit against the police over searches carried out during sweeps of “Clean Halls” apartments. Operation Clean Halls, established in the 1991, gives police permission to stop and search individuals in and around New York apartment buildings in high crime areas. In 2011, according to the NYCLU , police stopped 1,137 of the 1,857 “Clean Halls” residents in the Bronx.

On Jan. 8, Scheindlin ruled that numerous searches in the Bronx buildings had violated the Fourth Amendment protection against unreasonable search and seizure. She ordered an immediate end to stop-and-frisks in instances when officers have no reasonable suspicion.

Scheindlin agreed to halt immediate enforcement of her earlier ruling to end the stop-and-frisks following a city request. As Bloomberg reported, “the city said that unless its request was granted, the NYPD would be required to take the immediate and burdensome step of having to retrain its police officers.” The city persuaded the judge that it would be both expensive and burdensome to immediately enforce a ruling that could be undone in appeals court. (emphasis mine)

Baby please! There is no intent in these alleged United States -- at all -- to ever treat us like human beings.  "Clean halls" indeed!

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Happy Birthday today to my first-born, Gemini Son and Happy Belated to my Aries Baby

I'd begun a post in April for my Baby-boy, but as life continued to happen, it remained a draft.

Today, I honor both my beautiful sons on the 27th birthday of the oldest and the 24th birthday of the youngest - just passed (Spring and Summer are pretty busy around here!). I have so much faith in their promise!

I hope you both will always, always know the depth of my love for you!!!

Mom